Negotiated desire only ever leads to resentment, from both parties, down the road. Your highest ROI in life will always be that of being a man of vision, purpose, and who is always chasing excellence. Expect her to ramp up the shit tests to see if this new, more assertive you, is the real deal.
If you’ve been pussy-whipped for years, then she’ll likely be surprised. Learn to say “NO.” It’s a complete sentence that doesn’t need any further explanation. If you notice her making rules, or setting conditions, on areas such as when she’ll have sex with you (for example: “If you ever want to have sex again, then…”), you now know that she definitely sees you as a beta and that the frame has shifted. This means that you must always be on your A-game when it comes to frame, Game, and leading the relationship (more so if you’re married or in an LTR). Women break rules for alphas and make them for betas.Īs unfair as it may be, the “Burden of Performance” is always on you. Women’s rules – How they break them or make them
You can prevent this from happening by updating your belief system with healthy adaptations and then learning how to maximize your benefits while minimizing the risks. If you can’t learn to accept this way of life, then you run the very real risk of taking the “Black Pill” and becoming exceptionally jaded against all women and pursuing any type of relationship with them (whether that is spinning plates, non-exclusive LTRs, or otherwise). Men make up nearly all suicides (with many of them being because of failed past relationships – especially ones that involve his kids that he’s no longer “allowed” to see). For example, the classic “Women and children first” approach on sinking ships (or other disasters).
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This has led to an entire generation of men forming very unhealthy attachments to women that they, unfortunately, often make their sole focus of their lives. Men have been conditioned to be the quintessential "nice guy." They're trained to be overly humble, kind to a fault, and that just "being themselves" is enough to attract and keep the woman of their dreams. Men are told to believe that conventional masculinity is toxic, and to put women ahead of their own interests, passions, and purpose. Most men today are sent off into society with a broken belief system, which they use to make choices, that get them terrible results with life and women.